How I got molested? With pics of molester!

Dear Girlfriends,

This is what happened.

Sometime in January this year, I was on my way home from Harbourfront Centre on Bus 61 heading towards Bukit Batok.
Time: 11 am plus
I was happily minding my own business and settled down on the right side last second row in the bus. There was nobody sitting behind me when i boarded the bus.
When the bus reached BP tower, many people boarded, you know , lunch time.
Then that's when I felt it.
A poke at the right side of my rib near my breast from the back. And then again.

I was thinking : Did I feel that? Maybe he was holding the seat for support? But then again the handle is on top of the seat? Who is that behind me anyway?

I started to look sideways to check out whoever was behind me.

Then I felt it AGAIN!

This time I turned around.

pbc: EXCUSE ME? WHY ARE YOU TOUCHING ME? YOU LIKE TO TOUCH GIRLS IS IT?
Molester: No no no..I did not do it on purpose...(from the corner of the seat he already slided to the middle of the row in shock)
You should have seen the shocked look on his face.
Me staring and shaking with anger now.
Molester: I am sorry I am sorry I am sorry.
pbc: WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU ARE SORRY? SORRY CAN TOUCH OTHERS IS IT? WHAT DO YOU MEAN NOT ON PURPOSE? OF COURSE YOU DID IT ON PURPOSE!
Molester: I am sorry I am sorry. (Hands together like praying to me)

I turned around. And within 5 seconds I turned and looked at him again and took out my TRUSTY SAMSUNG phone and started taking pictures of him. My hands were shaking with anger. I have never been so freaking angry before in public. He was trying to hide his face with his hand and giving a very uncomfortable smile saying "No no no no...I have wife and kids"



Molester: I am sorry I have wife and kids I have wife and kids I have wife and kids.
pbc: GOT WIFE AND KIDS SO WHAT? CAN TOUCH OTHERS LAH?

Before I knew it, the bus stopped at the fire station near Queensway and he ran down the bus.

Seriously, I KNOW he is a serial molester because he came up like only barely a minute and he touched me. There was hardly any consideration at all, he just targeted whoever was sitting at the back and nobody could see him.

What really pissed me off is that nobody on the bus came forward to help or even say anything.
The other passengers on the bus only look and whisper but their bloody asses just glued to their seats and did nothing.

SINGAPOREANS! They are just non-chalent and really BOCHUP about other people's plight.
Is it just me or generally SINGAPOREANS are really useless?

I remember helping a girl once on a bus when I saw this Ah pek sitting really close to her and she was shifting closer and closer to the window, until I stuck my head in between them and look at the Ah pek and then asked the girl" Are you ok?" She nodded yes and then I saw the Ah pek move away.

I wished somebody would have helped me that day.

I told my dad and the first thing he said was: Did you kicked his balls?
Hahahahahaha.....violence is encouraged in my family!
My daddy also commented on the lack of help: People are like that. They do not want to get involved.

Theresa: I think ah the passengers see you so fierce and can take care of the situation so they never come forward to help lor.

I am very very pissed, really. Seriously chessed off by the lack of help and concern by the people on the bus!

Anyway, later in the night I made a police report. I was told the police had a great chance to nab him.

Female officer at the counter calling Officer in charge for sensitive cases on the phone.

FO: Sir, got molest case.
OIC:xxxxxxxxx (cannot hear on the other side of the line)
FO: Got good chance Sir. Victim very smart, got take pictures of him on her phone. Very clear, can even see his wedding ring.
OIC:xxxxxxxxx

I was smiling to myself and congratulating myself in my heart for being so quick to take pictures of him.

Anyway, The OIC later asked me what do I want to do with him, becasue if take him to court....blah blah blah will take a long time and also very troublesome...blah blah blah

(And he really laughed when I told him what I shouted at the asshole.)

I told the OIC that I am not heartless, I do not want him to go to jail and if he is the bread winner then his wife and kids will be in trouble. I just want him to be found out and apologize.

Stupid OIC said yah he apologize to you already on the bus saying he is sorry?

er hello? Are you mad? Like that also call an apology? He was being desperate. I want the police to find him and give him a warning and to scare him to death that we know what he did. Because if I see him again, I want him to shake with fail and know that I am watching him.

You know like that Sting song:
Every breath you take
And every move you make
Every bond you break, every step you take
I'll be watching you

Anyway, yeah, so that's my story of being molested.

Please ladies, if you think you are being touched, yes YOU ARE BEING TOUCHED. Your 1st instinct is always almost accurate. And don not do nothing about it or just keep quiet. Make some noise and embarass the shit out of the asshole if you are in public.

If you encounter the same situation in private. Do also resist and fight back if the asshole wants to go further such as raping. I have read in so many books, watch one too many Oprah and Crime Watch programs to know that if you fight back and resist, that would put off the assailant from going further. Because the assailant is always looking for an easy target.

Put up a fight if you can.

And pray. Jesus will give you strength.

Amen!