My molester

You know what?

When I am free later I will post the details of how I kena molested on a bus plus the molester's face!

What's up with psychos?

Time 0658hrs......

Hp: ring ring ring ring ( 2 missed calls from unknown number)

3rd call

pbc picks up: Hello? ( super groggy and most professional voice)

psycho: Hellooooooo ( whispering) Hellooooo Lisaaaaaaa

pbc: Who is this? ( pissed)

psycho: Helllllooooooo Lisaaaaa ( still fucking whispering)

pbc hangs up put phone on silent and sleeps.

Hubby mumbles: Prank call?

pbc: ya....zzzzzzz

fucker psycho calls again

pbc without opening her eyes cuts the call with the swift of her thumb

0703hrs

fucking irritating psycho calls again

pbc cuts the call again

1007hrs

pbs posting this on her blog.

My goodness, like this also shiok is it?

As a real estate agent, my number is everywhere and anywhere, my hp is on all the time and I am readily operational if my clients call me for something important. That is how dedicated I am to my clients.

This is not the first time I kena anyway. But seriously, what's up with these men? Not getting enough from your gf/wife? Get a life!

This reminds me of another post from my OLD BLOG

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What's up with perverts? Monday Oct 10 2005

I went for a late night supper with my dad on last Friday. There is this hawker centre that has one of the better Beehoon Goreng I have eaten and they open like 24 hrs.

There I was happily eating my BG and this malay guy with super messey hair tied back in a pony tail was smiling and waving at me. I thought my eyes were playing tricks on me because I was not wearing my specs. I looked at him and there he was again smiling at me.

Now my dad was there and I didn't want to make a big fuss and being a big girl now I just ignore that asshole and once in a while gave him my most kwai lan look.

Super annoying!I have been harassed before many times. Once I was even taken into a hotel room by my manager (when I was working part time in a hotel) and he came onto me. Fuck man! That one really freaked me out because I was 17 and my mother is the kind that would never let me out of the house ever again if she knew the perils of the world on her little girl.

Over the years, I have grown to be ultra anti-pervs and aggressive. I look like an angel (seriously sweet face) but step on my toes and you get the you-are-asking-for-it reaction from me. It ranges from a deadly stare to an explosion in public. If you have been scolded by this sweet girl before in Orchard Road, that might be me. I don't care if people are staring, not like I am planning to run for politics later on.

In my line, I train a lot of young girls and sometimes they share their encounters with pervs. Most, no I am sorry, ALL their reaction is to hide somewhere, get down the bus (if an asshole strikes on the bus), quickly walk away, look away pretend they didn't see or know what is going on.@%^(@$^&()!!$#*??!!*&# WTF? Wah lau eh?!!? Retaliate man!Please if any girl who knows what I mean and reading this, KNOW that you can do something.

Scenario 1

You are sitting in a bus. Pervert gets on and sits next to you. He inches closer and closer. Slowly his hand touches your lap. You can:

a) Get off the bus by squeezing through the Perv and hope he does not reach and grab your butt.

OR

b) Turn and look at him and shout, "WHAT THE FUCK? STOP TOUCHING ME!"
Scenario 2

You are clubbing and a Pervert touches your behind. You can:

a) Change position with your friends or walk away.

OR

b) Turn around and slap whoever is standing there. If it's the wrong guy , you can tell from his reaction, wrong guy=angry right guy=frightened, start crying and say somebody GRABBED you. I gaurantee a zillion hero-wanna-be's would be standing by.

Scenario 3

You come home late and a Pervert grabs you from behind. You can:

a) Cry like a baby.

OR

b) Bend your neck down till your chin touches your chest and with full force slam your head backwards towards his face. When the Perv lets go, RUN/SHOUT simultenously for help. Or better still turn and grab his shoulders and knee his BALLS/DICK aka groin. Head butt him and poke his eyes with your fingers! Inflict as much pain as possible!

I hope for the day to meet face to face with a Perv when my 2 particular gfs are with me, one of them keep meeting flashers at REDHILL MRT seriously. We talked through each person's role.
A would hold the legs while B will hold the head and I would just start kicking and aiming the groin like there is no tomorrow. Hwah! SHIOK SIAH!

Machiam like Charlie's angels! BEST!

So please girls, know you can do something and it makes a difference.

Stand up for YOURSELF and show the Pervs you can kick his NERVE!

How to save papayas from falling.

Be the thermostat not the thermometer

I will not allow the environment and the people control who I am and what I can become.

I will be the ONE instead and set a pace for others and make the environment a better place.

Be a thermostat and set the temperature, be an example, become a leader!

Be a thermometer and you shall fluctuate according to the surroundings and be at the mercy of others.

God give me favour!

PSYCHIATRISTS SAY: WEAK WOMAN + DOMINEERING MAN = RECIPE FOR DISASTER

DAUGHTER, I'M SORRY
She has forgiven me, says mum
By Zaihan Mohd Yusof
April 24, 2006

HER voice over the phone shook a little.

And then, as if willing herself, she said: 'I've asked my daughter to forgive me.'

The emotion in her voice grew stronger as she spoke the next words.

Said the woman who made her daughter have sex with her husband: 'She told me, 'Mum I have already forgiven you'.'

Her husband, who had other wives besides her and many children, was recently convicted of raping his five teenage daughters.

He was sentenced to 32 years' jail and 24 strokes of the cane on Tuesday.
Said the 40-year-old housewife: 'I regret what I have done. I have failed my daughter.

'But I have promised myself, my daughter and children that it will never happen again.'

In the phone interview, the woman described her actions as a mistake.

Her spoke a little more about her tearful conversation with her daughter.

She said that she told her daughter: 'Everybody makes mistakes. Mother has made a terrible mistake. Please forgive me.'

The woman said words may not be enough after what has happened.

As a mother, she would need to regain her daughter's trust 'through responsible actions', she said.

For more than a year, the man preyed on his five daughters and made them have sex with him.

In this case, she and the man's other wives allegedly helped their daughters 'keep appointments' with their father.

He had used religion to justify sex with his daughters.

Some of the wives even praised their girls for doing the 'right thing'.

The family cannot be identified to protect the victims' identities.

Almost nine months after the man's arrest, his wives have forgiven him for his savage act, she said.

MOVING ON

'Everybody has a black history. It doesn't mean that you're forever condemned,' she said.

'He has repented and is paying the price. But it's not going to change anything. We still need to move on with our lives.

'Our main concern right now is how are we going to survive as a family. We have to think about the children's welfare and education.'

The woman said the family was dependent on the man to support the family.

The New Paper understands he was a businessman and after his arrest, his family lost its source of income.

She said the wives spend close to $5,000 on the children's monthly necessities.

Currently, some of his wives are working while the others look after the children.

It appears that the women have resolved to keep the family together as it was their 'husband's wish', she said.

She said when she first met the man, she was a friend of one of the man's wives.

Said the woman: 'I was not a religious woman at first. But I was impressed when I noticed a change in my friend's character.

'She was more religious and knowledgeable. He managed to change her into a better person.'

When she finally became one of his wives, it was 'not love at first sight'.

'He doesn't have looks. He is just a normal-looking guy. My love for him blossomed only after our marriage,' she said.

'I was attracted to him because of his wisdom. Aside from his mistake, he is a responsible father.'

At home, the wives refer to each other as 'sisters'.

She said: 'There is no favouritism as far as the children are concerned. They are all abang's (Malay for husband) children.

'My husband was jailed in June last year. And in his absence it has been tough, but we're surviving.'

A reader of The Straits Times wrote in its Forum page on Thursday, wondering why the women were not taken to task for ''abetting' their husband's crimes.

Wary of such public criticism, the woman said they hoped they would be forgiven for what they did.

Now, some of the wives' parents have asked them to return to their respective families, the woman said. (See report at right.)

'The parents of some of my 'sisters' say this would be a perfect time to get divorced and return to their families,' she said.

Some of the children are too young to know what has happened.

The older children realised their father would be absent for a long while, she said.

She takes the children to see their father during prison visits.

They ask about their father as they miss him a lot, she added.

She said: 'The children miss the weekends with their father when we would visit the beach or park. The boys go first, then the girls.

'Even the girls, who were involved in the rape case, ask about their father. They want to know how he is doing,' she said.

Mums-in-law want daughters back

THEY want their daughters home.

The mothers of two of the man's many wives told Berita Harian they would readily accept their daughters, so long as 'they return to the right path'.

Said one of the mothers, a 70-year-old: 'Previously, my daughter praised her husband. She told me one can go to heaven in a polygamous marriage. Now see what has happened.

'This is the result of not listening to advice. They (the man's wives) are well-educated, yet were made to look stupid.'

The woman said she was glad the 'irresponsible' man is now in jail.

She learnt about what the man did from the newspapers last week.

She said: 'Now that he is in jail, I hope all his wives will return to their respective mothers.'

Another mother said she was not surprised that things turned out so horribly.

She said: 'I don't blame my daughter. The man brainwashed my daughter and, as a result, she is
lost.'

These two mothers said they were kept in the dark about their daughters' marriages.

PSYCHIATRISTS SAY: WEAK WOMAN + DOMINEERING MAN = RECIPE FOR DISASTER

SHE was afraid that her boyfriend would leave her.

He was 22 and better educated while she was 29 and worked as a clerk.

So, when he asked her to shoplift, she obliged despite knowing it was against the law.

Women like these usually have low self-esteem and feel insecure and inadequate, said psychiatrist Dr Ang Yong Guan.

They are the ones most at risk of being manipulated by the men.

The clerk was one of four such women he treated last year.

Said Dr Ang, a consultant psychiatrist at Paragon Medical: 'I first saw her in the middle of last year after she was arrested for shoplifting.

'The police referred her to me because they wanted a psychiatric evaluation.

'That was when I found out that she actually did it in order to keep her boyfriend in the relationship.'

He added: 'She knew it was wrong but because of her overwhelming fear that he would leave her, her sense of right and wrong was diminished.'

While cases like hers are not common, there have been other cases in which the women involved committed harsher and more serious crimes for their husbands, boyfriends or lovers.

Besides fearing that their men would abandon them emotionally and financially, these women may also believe certain things their lovers tell them.

Said Dr Tan Chue Tin, a consultant psychiatrist at Mount Elizabeth Hospital: 'Like in the case of
Adrian Lim. Both his wife and mistress really thought that he had supernatural powers and that he could heal them.

'They believed him and loved him so much to the extent that they killed for him.'

Lim, a self-styled temple medium, had manipulated the women to torture and kill two schoolchildren, aged 9 and 10. He and the two women were hanged in 1988.

Dr Ang added: 'Sometimes, there is an underlying mental problem that makes it even worse, and even easier for the man to manipulate the woman.'

POTENT COMBINATION

What about such men? Who are they?

'These men are usually domineering and have certain anti-social traits.

'Often, they are capable of committing petty crimes themselves,' said Dr Ang.

'They are likely to have defective consciences. That's why they probably don't have a problem with manipulating the women in their lives to get what they want.'

Dr Ang added: 'When a woman who feels inadequate and small gets together with a domineering man of such a character, you can say it's a recipe for disaster.'

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One of my dreams is to Champion Women's Selfworth. I am saddened by the increasing number of women that i know personally who do not stand up for themselves or are taken advantage of because they are weak.

To spread the word that women do not need to hurt themselves in anyway to gain the love of someone.

Nobody can take anything from you if you do not want to give it.

People will give you respect only when you respect yourself in the 1st place.

I have more than 1 friend (seriously if you are reading this you are not the first) who tell me if their men fool around they will close both eyes.

Why go through all these prep talk with yourself and prepare yourself for the worse? Direct your energy into something more constructive like your work or spending more time with your parents and friends!

It has never cross my mind that my man will stray. Because if I did, I would NEVER had married him. I cannot put myself through the anguish of wondering where is he, what is he doing, who is he hanging out with?

A relationship has got to be transparent. If the man does not even have the simple courtesy to let me into his life, be gone you fool cos you have just lost me.

I have casually (maybe life threateningly) told my husband before, if he does 1 I do 15. Ok this is direct translation from some Mandarin saying. Do not let me find out because I am part of another Mandarin saying, Good horse do not eat go back grass. Which means good horses never look back.

I have moved from ex bf to ex bf and I have never kept in contact with any of them. Why so tau? Because I do not believe in keeping in touch with people from my past, I give everything to the present and the future. I will treat my husband the way I want to be treated. I deserve to be treated fairly because I am part of the human race whom deserves respect and love. If you do not give me that, I will not give you that either.

Dear women of the world ,

Stand up for yourselves and the women around you. Don't make the rest of us look bad by continuing with that bastard bf/hb of yours.

If he is fooling around, tell him to stop it and work things out together. If he does not stop it, tell him to fuck off because God knows what kind of dieseases he might bring back to you.

Enough is enough. Never hurt yourself and stand his abuse. Verbal and physical are equally bad. You never ever DESERVE it contrary to what you think.

Do not mask your own pain by cutting yourself or taking some stupid pills. Scratching his car , burning his expensive golf sticks and beating the crap out of him would be a much more fun event. (I personally beat the crap out of my ex)

(ok if the govt funds my Champion Women's Selfworth, I promise not to spread the above as gospel, I will do it the correct and legal)

Warmest regards,
princessbobochin
Director of Champion Women's Selfworth

Depression can be treated

Dear Friends!

Are you DEPRESSED?

Do you feel life has no meaning?

Do you need a quick pick up?

I have the answer!

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You can laugh now :)

Feeling better?

Yes that's me and my colleague. I am a Real Estate Agent and I am a darn good one!

I don't know why all real estate, insurance agent or whatever secret agent always kena these kind of studio shots. The head must tilt to one side.

I had a good laugh when I saw this artwork. Chio or not , me?

Thank you Alice for blurring my number (during office hours) hehe...

Adios!

Bangkok and Koh Tao March 1st to 6th

It has been like 5 months since our last dive and we were both dying for some tank air.Wheeeeee..


This trip was meant to be a treat to my bubi for birthday! And we have so planned to ROUGH IT OUT! Seriously rough it out means rough it out. Read on and you know why!


There's me waiting for the flight at Changi Airport with my 2D piggy. Ok we are cheapo so here we are waiting for the Tiger Air. I loooovvvvvvve budget airlines.

Ok reached Bangkok and the first thing we do is to go MBK for the BBQ Plaza. Yes that is my bubi trying to wrestle the dragon by its' horns. And then we went off to Khao Sarn our favourite street in Bkk cos everything is so darn laidback. Check out the bus turned juice counter!
And now I tell you why we ROUGH IT OUT! We only landed in Bkk for less then 8 hrs we decided to take a BUS to Koh Tao where were were going to squeeze in 2 days of diving before rushing back to Bkk again! The bus ride is like 10 bloody hrs! On the Bus! still looking fresh :) And another 4 hrs on the Catamaran to Koh Tao itself. Aiyah forgot to take pics!
Fast forward after checking in, beautiful pics of the Island and our diving boat.

And of course being gluttons we need to eat again for dinner while watching the beautiful sunset. awwwwwwwwww Eat eat eat eat Buurrrpppppppp eat eat eat eat eat eat






The next day .....

Look Ma! A yummy hermit crab. I think it was scared shitless


To be continued.......

Habbie Birthday Twinkie

Dearest Twinkie,

Thank you for bringing us to the Yummmy place at Ang Mo Kio Ave 3 Block 232 for the Famous CRAB BEEHOON.






Check out the queue! and Twinkie had to book one ok! If not we also queue like stupid.





Check out our yao kui faces....
Oh yes and this is the Water auntie.....very fierce and has super thick make up and greenish/bluish eye shadow!

Auntie you need a make over le....



Well puss had to work OT that day and came much later.

AS USUAL char siew bao aka csb was late AGAIN! 50 mins late to be exact.








ohmigosh look at our spread. How to lose weight like dat?

MmmmmMmm............can we stop playing with the food already! Hungry leh!

1 HOUR LATER happy and satisfied faces!





as we were eating, we were also eyeing the durians next door.......look at twink and durians..so auntie!
went off to ah baos's villa to wait for puss to come from her OT....
As usual she strikes her Virgin Pose! hehe
Nono also wants a piece of the action! Me Virgin too! Woahooo!

Puss brought the small cake/muffin? and Twink blew her candle. The candle also must stun from other people's birthday cake one. Our budget every year getting smaller and smaller.


Durian time! Twink is so muscle muscle! Look at her opening the lu lian!




Thank you friends for the wonderingful time and the yummy food:)

Collecting my new car !!! weeeeee.....

bobo is getting her new car....bobo is getting her new car..... car bought with and serviced with my own moolah hor :) hubby and daddy no give me any $$...me feel so proud of me self!

My gosh, I feel pretty freaked out of driving out alone in my little Picanto. I mean I only passed my test on the 21 March ok? Not even 1 month yet, cut me some slack.....

Counting down to 5pm....woahoooooo

BTW arh my Picanto is Flaming Red, Do not mess around with my BM ok? Bobo Mobile!

Another post on my old blog Nov 6 05

Maybe I am suffering from THE quarter life crisis?

Just a thought?

The Quarter-Life Crisis by unknown

It is when you stop going along with the crowd and start realizing that there are a lot of things about yourself that you didn't know and may or may not like. You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely know where you are now.

You start realizing that people are selfish and that, maybe, those friends that you thought you were so close to aren't exactly the greatest people you have ever met and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones. What you do not realize is that they are realizing that too and are not really cold or catty or mean or insincere, but that they are as confused as you.

You look at your job. It is not even close to what you thought you would be doing or maybe you are looking for one and realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom and are scared.

You miss the comforts of college, of groups, of socializing with the same people on a constant basis. But then you realize that maybe they weren't so great after all.

You are beginning to understand yourself and what you want and do not want. Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what others are doing and find yourself judging a bit more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and add things to your list of what is acceptable and what is not. You are insecure and then secure. You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone and scared and confused. Suddenly change is the enemy and you try and cling on to the past with dear life but soon realize that the past is drifting further and further away and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward.

You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you or you lay in bed and wonder why you can't meet anyone decent enough to get to know better. You love someone but maybe love someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing this because you are not a bad person.

One night stands and random hook ups start to look cheap and getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic. You go through the same emotions and questions over and over and talk with your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a decision.

You worry about loans and money and the future and making a life for yourself and while wining the race would be great, right now you'd just like to be a contender!

What you may not realize is that everyone reading this relates to it. We are in our best of times and our worst of times, trying as hard as we can to figure this whole thing out.

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Looking back to how I felt last year and this year is really different!

Phew this year has been great.

1. Took up my Diploma with ERC,
2. Passed my driving,
3. Took up real estate and getting a major triple promotion soon,
4. Renovated my flat,
5. Finding more energy for my business,
6. Bought my very first car with my own moolah, did i mention I am collecting it tomorrow?
7. Going to get baptist in May with Theresa, finally :)

This year has been a really busy year for me. I am beginning to really find direction and do not feel so lost. Mid life crisis? Nah, I just needed to fill my life with activities and move on.

Hubby says I am a workaholic. I love working. Everything has been great.

Thank you Jesus. Lead me towards Project M!

Moomoo's 15 autospeed self shots

As you can tell now I am the Princess Bobo of Ipoh not to be mistaken with Princess Nono from Batam. I am of cos the more Royal one lah!

I've got to show you photos of my best flen since JC days using my Samsung Phone. Presenting Leong Moo Moo aka ah bao aka top banker aka xiao cha bo.

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Cute right :)