All alone again

Bubi is gone again. This time for a month.

Will have a lot of personal time and silence at home.

Kinda miss him already. It's always the case. When he is here I am wondering when is he going away. When he is gone, I feel kind of sad. I am only human and my feelings are fickled none the less.

Tomorrow is Monday again. Another week of work. I really love what I am doing. The people there are not too bad. And I feel like I am learning every single day and progressing. Unfortunately, my path is filled with challanges and 1 Arsehole.

Was watching CNBC today. they have this great series called Millionaire Inside. 4 invited millionaries were invited to talk about life and success.

One point struck close to me.

Get rid of friends who bring you down. Make friends with people who push you to the next level. Make friends with successful people who share the same ideals.

I totally agree on that. I mean who wants to hang out with depressing and negative people. I personally feel these people should be shot! Life is as tough as it is sometimes. It is up to us (with Jesus blessings of cos) to be a themostat and change the temperature of the surrounding we are in. If there are negative and miserable people in a party, I would scram from them. I just do not have the patience to stick with depressing people. I have enough on my plate already, I do not need to run through your problems with you again. NO, THANK YOU!

With this said, you can tell that I do not have many friends. Close friends, not those Hi-Bye ones where the relationship does not add value to my life. I already do not have enough time for my close friends and family why would I want to invest my time in empty realtionships with those who irritate and annoy me with their misery and whining.

I guess what I am trying to say is at the end of the day we all need to be positive in whatever position we are in. And to remind ourselves that whatever happened it could have all been worse. So why dwell on the unhappiness and just work towards the future where we can change whatever is holding us back. I don't think successful people became successful by sitting on their lazy asses and whine about their situation and worse of all burden others with their negativity.

Get off your ass, get up and do something. If you aren't happy with your situation, however you confide in friends, you are not getting anywhere. If your friends are giving you precious advice and yet you are not taking any of it then stop complaining and return to your miserable lives.

I am happy, I plan to be happy and I am going to stay happy. I promise!

What about you?